In this article we are going to talk about the challenges faced by married men. Marriage is like ‘you have to do’ task for many. As a huge percentage of people think that they should not marry. But why do they think so? Their opinion about marriage changes after hearing pathetic stories especially by men. If you sincerely hear the challenges faced by married men then we are quite sure that even your will to get married may change. Let’s now dive into details.
Our life after marriage changes in many ways. Earlier we used to sleep alone on our bed which will surely be shared once you get married. But we didn’t feel bad in sharing our bed with someone else. Then what are the things which keep us worried after marriage.
Relationship between wife and parents
Most married men find it difficult to balance their relationship with parents after marriage as wife also needs your love and support and parents too seek the same. And interestingly, both complaints that you are giving them less time. This is one of the most common challenges faced by married men.
Priority
After marriage our priority changes, earlier we were answerable only to our parents. Now, you will have to answer both the parties’ parents as well as wife. If you give more importance to wife then parents will become upset and vice-versa.
Expectations
Wife expects that her husband loves the most and parents too think how can their beloved son change after marriage. And in this pool of expectations the peace of a man gets piece-piece.
Privacy
Husband and wife seek privacy after marriage. And if they didn’t get it, they become frustrated. And this results in tussle between parents and couple. And if tension arises much then couple wants to separate themselves from parents. This is one of the most unwanted challenges faced by married men.
So far, we were only talking about the problems, but what about the solutions? The only solution to above mentioned issues is ‘let go attitude’. If couples are seeking privacy from parents, then they should let them live peacefully for at least a year or two. And doing this will not harm them but it will be fruitful for their relationship.
Stubbornness and stupidity ruin the relationship. Parents should understand that their son is not their asset and children should think that parents are not their enemies. Wife should also be prepared to give in-laws the same respect she used to give to her parents. Only love and understanding can lead a relationship peacefully. Otherwise, expectations, ownership selfishness is always ready to destroy your relationship. That’s why be mature and live life peacefully.
